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Objectives: This reseach study the relationships with opposite sex and the factor effecting in this relations and try to answer this questions: what kind of behavioral attitude the boys and girls have relations and dates and  what is causes of  it and how they behave in this relations?

Method: This research has been done by survay method and with holestic-analytic approach and deductive ends.

Its population was the whole students studied in Islamic Azad Uni in 8th zone with the sample size of 486 persons which chosen by size – appropriate random sampling. the data was gathered through a questionnaire designed by researcher and analyzed by Regression , Variance , T Tests and Path analysis.

Finding: The findings show that gender has the highest effect on the relations followed – up by age , individual and family  religiosity , attitude toward Hejab , marital status , attitude toward mass media and so on.

Results: The result show that there are significant relationships between individual and family religiosity, tendency to Hejab, tendency to mass-media, the use of internet, you show fence conditions as independent variable and tendency to girls and boy relationship and there are significant differences amount student of different fields and between girls intendancy to dating

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Introduction: The wishes of people are not created in a purely personal and individual way, but the objective position of people in society determines the ceiling of wishes. Dreams or wishes of people are influenced by external conditions and differ depending on the living conditions of individuals. Wishes are different from one another; the desired wishes of a particular class for the other class are impossible and unattainable, which reflects class distance in groups of society. 
Method: The results of this study have been obtained by qualitative method through a deep interview technique among the young people living in Tehran. 
Findings: The findings of this research show that there is a concord between objective fortune and subjective wishes, and people’s wishes are distinct based upon economic and cultural capital. The youth  living in north of Tehran are sure about achieving their wishes.  
Discussion: Despite the lack of enough and adequate means for living and working in the community after graduation, in the beginning the structure of Iranian educational system is very promising, but in practice, a large number of these graduates after receiving higher degrees, will become disappointed because of failures in the labor market. Therefore, working and living outside of Iran has become a dream for many young people regardless of their class base.